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As anyone who has participated in UConn's Education Abroad in Cape Town will tell you there are no words to adequately explain the depth of the experiences, no narratives to sufficiently describe the hospitality of the people, and no pictures to begin to capture the exquisite scenery. Therefore this blog is only intended to provide an unfolding story of the those co-educators who are traveling together as companions on this amazing journey. As Resident Director of this program since 2008 it is once again my privilege and honor to accompany another group of remarkable UConn students to this place I have come to know and love.
In peace, with hope,
Marita McComiskey, PhD
(marita4peace@gmail.com)

Showing posts with label * Anna. Show all posts
Showing posts with label * Anna. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 3, 2017

Anna is missing Cape Town and her co-educators who she believes are the only ones who can understand

I’ve been in the States for a day and a half, and I already want to go back to Cape Town.  I was constantly learning about important social issues, and I constantly had a smile on my face as we explored the beauty of Cape Town.  I miss the Old Biscuit Mill, Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens, Main Road, Lion’s Head, and the beach.  I created memories at these places – memories that I never want to forget.  I find myself continuously scrolling through photos of our trip, reminding myself of all the good times I had.  I especially miss the mountains.  They became an image of peace and happiness for me; they symbolized home, and I will miss seeing them every day.  I’m thankful that everyone on the trip goes to UConn.  My co-educators are the only people who truly understand how I feel right now.

Anna, Erica, Rav, Kat, Ash, & Shona


I want to say thank you to the 16 girls (and Ethan) who shared this life-changing experience with me.  Each and every one of you positively contributed to my time in Cape Town.  I learned so much from your stories about your internships, families, and life experiences.  It’s going to be hard adjusting to a life where I’m not surrounded 24/7 by my best friends.








It’s hard to put into words how I’m feeling at the moment; I’m happy to see my boyfriend and family in Connecticut, but I’m longing for the pure contentment I felt while in Cape Town.  I love to document my life through photography, so here are some photos that portray the happiness I felt while in Cape Town.  Photos can tell more than any words I write here.
Anna at the height of happiness




Anna & Karen

Laura & Anna

Monday, April 17, 2017

Anna on setting and achieving goals

In Marita’s class, we did an exercise on goals, particularly goals for this quickly approaching summer.  Here are some of my goals:

I want to teach people about intersectional feminism in a non-condescending way.  When a person says something racist or sexist ­– even if they don’t realize their statement was offensive – I often respond in an angry and non-productive way.  For example, we had an Uber driver the other day who thought men and women are treated equally.  I was shocked ­and almost exclaimed, “How can you possibly think that?”  But I remembered:  Not everyone has the same level of feminist education as me.  Not everyone knows about the inequality that exists in South Africa, America, and around the world.  In these types of situations, I need to first try and understand why the person believes in their sexist or racist statement; only then can I have a productive conversation.  Yelling at the person will just make the situation worse, and I won’t be able to educate anyone.

I want to learn a new skill such as knitting or how to play the ukulele.  I bought a uke a while ago, but I want to actually learn how to use it this summer.  For me, singing is a great stress reliever.

I want to express myself through art.  During the school year, I don’t have much time for crafting, but this summer I know I’ll have the time to embrace my creative side.  Luckily, there’s a Michael’s right near UConn!

I want to stay connected with all of my amazing friends that I’ve made here.  Laura will be living at UConn, so I’m pumped to spend a lot of time with her this summer.  But I also want to arrange monthly (if not weekly) gatherings where I can see my close Cape Town friends.  They are the only people who will truly understand my feelings about reverse culture shock and missing South Africa.

I want my feminism to not only be inclusive, but to truly focus on marginalized communities such as black trans women, people with disabilities, and non-binary individuals.  I really like the point Erica shared with the class:  Many feminist movements are inclusive, but they still center on white, cisgender, usually straight communities.  We may say that a movement includes everyone, but usually the inclusion of trans people (for example) is just an afterthought.  I’m taking a feminist disabilities class next semester which I’m very excited about.  People with disabilities are often left out of the picture, even though they exist in every demographic and every community.  I hope I can learn to be an advocate for this group of individuals, especially for those with mental illnesses, because talking about depression, anxiety, and other mental illnesses is such a taboo.
           

Speaking of goals, I’ve wanted to watch the sunset at the beach since I landed in Cape Town.  I finally did it!  It was absolutely beautiful and probably one of the best sunsets I’ve ever seen.  And to make it even better, we could see the entirety of Table Mountain in the background.  A true Cape Town sunset.




Wednesday, April 12, 2017

Anna enjoyed herself on our fun and educational excursion

Driving through Johannesburg, I expected to see rampant poverty and evidence of crime.  I’ve heard several negative comments about Jo’burg – Cape Town is bad at night, but Jo’burg is always bad.  Maybe we didn’t venture into the “bad” parts of the city, but I never felt unsafe.  We walked through townships and ate at restaurants owned by township residents.  We worked at a thriving Boys and Girls club and visited museums and memorials remembering South Africa’s past.  Interacting with locals definitely challenged my preconceptions of Jo’burg; the city may have a higher crime rate than Cape Town, but the people are still the same welcoming, loving, and caring South African citizens.  Still, there is racism, sexism, and classism evident in Jo’burg just like in Cape Town.  At a steak house, the smallest steak was called “ladies.”  Of course, because we’re feminists, we had to ask the server about this nomenclature.  He said they call it “ladies” so that men know not to order it.  Masculinity is so fragile that men are told what size steak is appropriate for them.


Visiting Constitution Hill opened my eyes to the true tortuous past of South Africa.  We visited an old prison for white, colored, and black men.  I learned that joining a gang was the only way to stay away from harm caused by other prisoners.  If you helped out a gang leader, he would give you a reward.  Many of these men probably did not want to become part of a gang, but it was the only way to survive.  Solitary confinement was another aspect of the prison that stood out to me.  One ex-prisoner described the experience of solitary confinement as being buried alive.  Stuck in a small cell with two buckets, men would not see another human for hundreds of days.  Some were driven to insanity.  Like everything during Apartheid, these men were treated differently based on their race.  Whites, coloreds and Asians, and Africans would be given different meals every day, with whites getting the most vegetables, bread, soup, and other more nutritious types of foods.  Based entirely off skin color, some men were treated much better in prison than other men.

The Hector Pietersen Museum was one of the most interesting yet saddening museums we visited on this trip.  Pietersen was a thirteen-year-old boy who was killed by the police during a peaceful protest against the use of Afrikaans as the medium of instruction in black schools.  Like Constitution Hill, the Hector Pietersen Museum gave real-life testimonies of the atrocious South African environment under the Apartheid government.  Hector’s sister recalls, “Everything was puzzling, it was so confusing.  But I was angry.  How can an adult shoot an innocent child?”  The police had become so brainwashed into seeing black as bad that they shot children without remorse.


On a more positive note, our three game drives at Kruger National Park were incredible.  We saw giraffes, an elephant, zebras, hyenas, monkeys, warthogs, a vulture, wildebeests, a huge herd of buffalo, and two male lions!  I felt like I was in the Lion King.  I like Kruger because the animals have a vast area of land to roam around; the park is larger than the size of Connecticut.  These animals are considered wild, so it was rewarding to go out on a game drive and spot these animals; we never knew what we would be able to see.  


One of my favorite moments was on our sunrise drive when we saw around ten giraffes hanging out with zebras.  It’s cool to see these plant-eating animals coexisting.  Another exciting moment was on the sunset drive.  Two male lions walked alongside our vehicle for about ten minutes as they marked their territory.  Their walk is so regal.  I wish we could have seen rhinos, but there are only two left in the entire park because of poaching.  Rhinos have no natural predators, but because of humans, they are going extinct.  Overall, our spring break in Jo’burg and Kruger was both fun and educational, and I really enjoyed myself.

Wednesday, March 29, 2017

Anna knows studying abroad in Cape Town one of the best decisions she's made


On Saturday, I spent the day at the Kirstenbosch Botanical Gardens with Karen, Laura G., Taylor, and Sarah I.  Kirstenbosch is definitely my favorite place in Cape Town; in fact, it’s in my top five favorite places I’ve EVER been.  Walking through the hundreds of different species of plants, flowers, and trees is a magical experience.  The air is fresh and crisp.  I’ve now been to the gardens several times, yet there’s always more to explore.  One of my favorite areas of Kirstenbosch is the Enchanted Forest – the huge twisted trees always amaze me.  Other parts of the garden that I love are the Fragrance Garden, the Sculpture Garden, and the rolling hills where I can sit and look at the mesmerizing mountains.  

There is also a stream with small stones in the water that people can walk on.  The sound of the flowing water is so relaxing and peaceful.  Everyone who visits Cape Town should set out a time (preferably an entire day) to walk around the botanical gardens.  We brought a picnic lunch from the Old Biscuit Mill that we ate before meditating in a field overlooking the mountains.  I’ve been meditating every day for the past few days, and I can tell it’s helping me relax and realize how lucky I am to be here in Cape Town.  Studying abroad is one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.  It has given me new life-long friends, opened my mind to new cultures, and given me experiences that’ll positively impact my life forever.

Taylor, Sarah, Anna, and Laura
We watched a movie called “I Am” in Marita’s class on Thursday.  It discussed how every living thing on Earth is connected.  The energy we emit into the atmosphere affects the people, animals, and plants around us.  After massive disasters such as hurricanes and 9/11, random number generators around the world started creating non-random patterns.  What really made this documentary interesting was the scientific evidence it presented.  There have been hundreds of studies on the connectedness of living beings.  When the energy of a person changes, the energy of the plant next to that person also changes.  Additionally, the molecules of argon that were breathed in by Joan of Arc, George Washington, and Martin Luther King are the same molecules of argon that we breath in today.  The argon in our lungs is the argon that existed in the lungs of dinosaurs and every living being since the beginning of time.  Not only is our energy connected presently, but we are also connected through space and time.  This made me think about how my own actions affect those around me.  I want to become a more positive person so that I can spread positive energy to the people I hang out with and talk to.


Today at my internship, we had a group of preschool children come to the nature reserve for a bird watching workshop.  We had a bird specialist capture birds around the reserve.  He allowed the kids to pet the birds he caught and gave them facts about each type of bird.  The kids really loved interacting with live animals.  However, I was a bit torn on whether I support this type of contact with animals.  Although catching birds is a way for humans to better understand and study birds, it interrupts the birds’ natural life.  Being held and pet by humans may be uncomfortable or even hurt the bird.  We let the birds go free soon after we caught them, but I still feel like we shouldn’t have this type of control over the animals with which we share this planet.  Nevertheless, I enjoyed spending time with the children.  I love being around kids because they have so much energy and enthusiasm for life.

Thursday, March 23, 2017

Anna trying to pack in as many activities as she can before leaving

Time is flying by here; I can’t believe we only have a little over a month left.  We’re currently trying to pack in as many activities as we can before we leave at the end of April.  I went to the Waterfront and had the best veggie burger I’ve ever tasted, and as a vegan, I’ve tried a lot of different veggie burgers.  I can’t leave Cape Town until I have another one of these scrumptious burgers.  Even my non-vegan friends loved it!  As a meat-centered culture, I was surprised to find so many vegan-friendly restaurants in Cape Town; veganism is growing around the world.  Karen, Laura G., and I went to Honest Chocolate on Bree Street.  All of their chocolate is dairy-free, and they had many other vegan deserts.  I ordered banana bread stuffed with vanilla ice cream and hot fudge.  It was incredible.  I want to go back to Bree Street and check out the other cute cafés we saw.  Sometimes when I’m home for a night, I feel like I should be out and doing something new in Cape Town; however, I try to remind myself that relaxation, sleep, and self-care are just as important as partaking in new experiences.

I finally hiked Lion’s Head with Karen.  It was pretty hard near the end – the trails were steep and rocky, but it was worth it.  On the top, we had an incredible view of Cape Town with all of its mountains and beautiful beaches.  I want to go back because there are apparently caves on a different trail.  Speaking of incredible views, I went paragliding!  It was SO much fun; I felt like I was flying.  It lasted 5 or 10 minutes, but I could have been up there for much longer.  I flew over the city and the ocean before landing in Sea Point.  I would recommend paragliding to everyone, especially because it is less intense than skydiving or bungee jumping.



At my internship, I’m starting to put together my workshop.  I’m planning on going to a school and giving a presentation on healthy eating to grade 6 or 7, and another person from my internship is going to present on recycling and water-saving tips.  We are then going to put these two topics together and have the children plant herbs in recycled plastic bottles.  They will learn how to both re-use materials and also plant seeds to grow healthy food.  At my activist project, Erica, Katherine, and I gave a short workshop at a local library.  We talked to two girls about self-love, the naturalness of periods, and how to feel confident as women.  Even though we were only able to speak with two girls, I know we made an impact on how they think about their bodies and their periods.  Each life we impact is one more girl who can feel confident in a world that shames and hypersexualizes women.