Welcome to Our Blog

Welcome to Our Blog
As anyone who has participated in UConn's Education Abroad in Cape Town will tell you there are no words to adequately explain the depth of the experiences, no narratives to sufficiently describe the hospitality of the people, and no pictures to begin to capture the exquisite scenery. Therefore this blog is only intended to provide an unfolding story of the those co-educators who are traveling together as companions on this amazing journey. As Resident Director of this program since 2008 it is once again my privilege and honor to accompany another group of remarkable UConn students to this place I have come to know and love.
In peace, with hope,
Marita McComiskey, PhD
(marita4peace@gmail.com)

Monday, January 30, 2017

Kaitlyn finds early mornings no problem as she's always ready to take on each new day

Yesterday marked the end of our two week orientation which overwhelmed me at first, but turned out to be so incredibly useful. It allowed us time to acclimate to this amazing city we get to call home for three more months. I felt slightly more at ease after our public transportation exercise, eager to learn more about the history of South Africa after our first class with Vincent, and I’m really hoping to pick up enough words/phrases in both Afrikaans and Xhosa so that I am able to carry on basic conversations during my time here. Yesterday was such a perfect ending to orientation - a few hours spent in Bo-Kaap exploring and taking pictures and an evening concert at Kirstenbosch. 


Today was my first day at Maitland Cottage! Waking up at 4:45am for a 6:30am start wasn’t nearly as awful as I expected it to be. It was actually so peaceful getting ready and out of the house while everyone else was still sleeping. I also got my exercise in, seeing as Alex and I walked a total of 6.8 miles today!!! The busiest time of day at the Cottage is from 6:30-9am which also turned out to be the most overwhelming part of today. The nurses were so incredibly kind and willing to answer any questions we had, but I felt like they thought we knew more than we actually did. I recognize that’s part of the learning experience though, and that sometimes jumping right into situations is the most beneficial way to expand existing and acquire new information. We spent the second half of the morning in the playroom area, distributing toys to the children in the wards and playing with a few individual children outside. It was so powerful seeing how happy the children were when toy time came along. The girls’ ward had song time too, and they were filled with such joy and laughter while singing. I learned that the people that work in the playroom are actually volunteers and they come in solely to make a difference in the children’s lives. I find myself noticing people who perform acts of kindness purely out of the goodness of their heart so much more than I do at home and it’s so refreshing. I already cannot even imagine how the children at Maitland Cottage feel, but picturing their lives there without play time breaks my heart. Those people volunteer their time on Mondays and Wednesdays, so I’m curious to see how Tuesdays (and the other days of the week) play out. The language barrier also presented more of a challenge than I expected it to. Communicating with children who speak very little to no English made me feel so helpless at times; I know there are other ways to connect with them besides verbal communication, but it’s so hard to watch them speak full sentences to me without even knowing that I can’t communicate back in their language. Regardless, I am already beginning to form bonds with some of the children there and I feel so lucky to be there keeping them company, hopefully making their day a tiny bit better. The staff members are welcoming and open and I’m excited to have conversations with them about their lives. It’s just as important to me to create relationships with the adults as it is to do so with the children. I already learned so much today, so I can’t even imagine how much I will have learned by the end of the semester! I’m looking forward to all the challenging, rewarding, and humbling moments that I will experience while there. 


On the phone with my sister today, she asked how much I loved it here. I gave her my answer, which included how instantly my mood has been lifted and how much happier I am in general. She responded with something along the lines of how when she was here she always felt eager to wake up and start her day, even with little sleep. I connected to that instantly and couldn’t describe my feelings any better. No matter how early I have (or choose) to wake up (which ranges anywhere from 4:30 to 8am), I am wholeheartedly ready to take on the present day and absorb all that Cape Town and my co-educators have to offer! 


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